Today, Suzie and I visited Banks, a friend of mine from Team Interrobang that has reached autonomy with me meaning our friendship doesn’t require the excuse of Team Interrobang. I didn’t expect this to happen as Banks and I have little in common on a superficial level except for maybe our common love of Napoleon Dynamite. Banks and I are on the same ethical page in most cases and follow a motto of action of “you do it because it’s right”. He and I have different epistemologies powering our decision engines but even from such a disparate base the synchrony of our conclusions is striking.
From 2012-02-17 Banks' |
Banks’s second daughter very much took to Suzie and showed both Suzie and I her collection of Star Wars figurines and her talking Storm Trooper helmet but only Suzie received privy access to the contents of her Nintendo DS. Â I think kids from the ages of 6-20 have a sense for when someone older than them is closer to their age than their parents and generally take to them. Â I’ve experienced this a lot in Scouting and I regret that this will flip for me within the next five years. Â For Banks’s daughter, Suzie is on the youth side of that divide but I’m fine with being some variant of “Uncle Arcanus” and simply being the bringer of cookies and cake balls.
From 2012-02-17 Banks' |
As always, Banks provided me and mine a nice dinner and Suzie and I departed northward shortly after. Â I had a large dinner, had sat most of the day, and was feeling somewhat loagy so when we arrived at Peter’s I used the gym. Â I changed and Suzie commented that I tucked in my exercise shirt. Â I do but mostly to prevent chaffing from the elastic band of the waist and to help restrain my gut but this sartorial choice was still chuckle-worthy. Â I responded by hiking my shorts up to around nipples and lacing them behind my head. Â Someone has a cell phone shot of this.