My brother diplomatically hosted Christmas.  He prepared a spiral ham that was ok.  I prepared a smore brownie that was ok.  Everyone drank wine that was ok (except for me, who had sparking white grape juice that was ok).  We exchanged gifts that were ok (I got a GPS that was ok) and listened to music that was ok with people that were ok.  Considering my loathing of these get-togethers and how low my standards have been ground, I had an awesome Christmas.